I have just seen a short documentary on “the hidden world of the pick-up artist or “PUA”, a community of men who’ve developed a sequence of tricks, codes and routines that they claim any man can use to seduce any woman.”

Now, it was interesting nevertheless, I actually recommend further reading on this for the guys out there who maybe haven’t tapped some ass yet, or maybe you had but the chick looked like Chewbacca. I personally don’t agree with guys using techniques, mind tricks etc to getting a girl into bed and dispose of her. That in my opinion is bad ethics of the whole dating/sex/women department, but that’s my opinion… At the end of the day, the blunt truth is that women are stupid, if you know what to say, how to say and when to say it, then that’s it, you’re sorted. But majority (90%) of guys don’t do these things right so therefore women have lowered their intelligence in this area and also it has weakened their shield. (NOTE: 70% of seducing a woman is from body language, not from what comes out of your mouth) Which brings me on to the next thing…

The guys mentioned in the documentary, who were Pick-Up-Artists, Masters, all that shit, bells and whistles, they didn’t have a good, or if any relationship with their mothers. When a kid as he is growing up is deprived of a good healthy relationship with his mum, then no wonder later on life he goes on a rampage, sleeping with countless girls, disposing of them like chocolate wrappers - because they do not know how to appreciate a women and how to care for one as they haven’t been taught nor have seen in their life. These of course are my speculations based of what I read in between the lines from the documentary, maybe someone else can draw up other conclusions and theories…

And in turn girls who get burned by these guys, they fucking bring up this bitch shield the size of the Great Wall of China that average dorky John Doe can’t even climb it using an elevator! For me as long as you know how to treat a woman, understanding her needs and knowing to do the right thing at the right time, it is all more than enough.

Don’t forget that good guys always win!

What’s up with women these days? Apparently the (majority) think that they are the God’s gift to men and everything and everyone should evolve around them? Hmm…. Let me check on that one…

I have changed my view on getting girlfriends and dates and all of that crap. The way I see it (and I have had this mentality for a couple of months now) is that I do not have to prove myself to a woman to show her that I am worthy for her to even look at me let alone go out on a “date”, but I now look at things when it comes to women if they are worthy to me. What is she going to offer me? Tits, pussy and ass I can get from the next woman in line, so what will make HER different than “Sally” that is sitting at the table in the corner?

And it is true. When I go out and meet new women (not exactly looking for a date or to pull), just chatting to them see what they are all about it is all the same to me. It doesn’t make a difference to me that her name is Sarah, Amy or Chloe, they are all under the same template, therefore they are regulars, they are the same so I don’t bother getting interested into them because it is just a waste of my time to get to know some slutty 20 year old who in 4 hours time will be sweeping the floor of a night club because she will pissed out of her face.

To me that’s nothing to be proud of or to laugh it off the next day as “Oh well, it was pretty funny when my skirt got blown up! Ha Ha Ha” - that to me it should be embarrassing and shameful and I would hide in the house for a couple of months if I was found falling over in a night club because I was drunk out of my face.

That is one of the reasons why I don’t bother to waste my time with the women around here. I walk into a bar/night club and I look around and as soon as I see them I already know what they are all about, what their story is of leaving school at 16 and working in a shitty dead-end job staking shelves or filling paper away just “to be independent” and to brag that they have a job and lots of money… (Since when £16,000 is a lot of money?)

Majority of women these days seem to have lost their self-respect and are on the same level as men on the lack of manners, self-respect and all of that scale. Truly a shame for future generations, though if you think that I have mis-understood the whole issue then feel free to comment to state your opinion.

And let me say that again NO WOMAN IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR! If you are ever put in a situation that you have to (for whatever reason) get all physical with some other guy because of your woman - walk away and don’t turn back. The bitch isn’t worth it. She obviously is need of some serious attention, and because the bitch is so dumb to even talk to you about it, letting you know that you are not giving her any attention lately, then that’s her problem.

Sometimes they do the wrong things to get this attention that they are constantly seeking. Women always go “Do you like my hair?”, “What do you think of this dress?” or the classic one “Does my bum look big in this?” . All of these are for attention seeking purposes. And if you go “Yeah yeah sure ahammmm.” then she will find someone else who will (if the woman is too stupid to tell you what her problems are). And then if you go in and interrupt their little party and just simply walk away without making a fuss and threatening that you are going to kick the other guys ass, then she’ll might ask you “So why didn’t you fight for me?”. And if she says something like, or if she is hinting about something like that, just get rid of her. No pussy is worth fighting for! All pussy looks the same and there is a sea full of it out there. Like the old saying goes “There is plenty of fish in the sea” - well there is!

Furthermore it pisses me off when guys are like “Oh you deserve someone better than me!” or “Am I good enough for her?”. Get those thoughts and that mentality of out your head right this minute. You shouldn’t think if YOU are good enough for a woman, but to actually think if that woman your dating or you got her number and are wanting to take to the next level is good enough FOR you! This is a common mistake a lot of guys make and no wonder they end with some fucked up woman. You have to make the woman prove to you that she is worth being your girlfriend.

And let’s not forget all of this money-steam that women have in their heads that you, being the guy are meant to take them out and pay for their food/drinks every weekend. Ummm…. NO? If your woman says to you something like Oh yeah your taking me out for a meal this weekend! in a ordering, commanding tone of voice - you will have to perform Maneuver Slap-On-The-Face. You have to wake her up from her dream world. NO woman orders a man around. She obviously must be confused with the hierarchies of a relationship.

I find it most funny when a guy is BEING told by his girlfriend what he can and cannot do, where they are going out that night, in which order they are going to go out, to which bars/clubs first… etc. Amuses me every time I hear stories like these from guys who say things like “I have to check with my girlfriend and see if she wants to go there”. YOU’RE the man in the relationship, YOU decide what’s going down that night, or who is doing what. Women don’t like to be in control, they don’t want to be in control (unless she is one of those women who likes to be competitive all the time and forgot what the feeling of a cock in her is like). As soon as your girlfriend decides what is happening and bosses you around (even though you might not realize it), she has you wrapped on her little finger, your not in control any more and is only a matter of time until she gets bored of you (and finds a REAL man that won’t bow down to her) and he’ll boss her around - because that’s what men do, they are the leaders, they decide what is going down.

And if a woman starts giving you mouth after she perfectly planned out her evening with what she is going to wear and with what friends she is going to meet etc and you say to her “I am not in the mood to go out, we’re staying in and watch a movie” - you then tell her who’s the boss “Look, you do what I tell you to do, and if you don’t like it then get your ass out of here, otherwise STFU and you do as I say”. Obviously if you want to show that you mean business you say it more like that, otherwise you say it in a much nicer way. Either way is she doesn’t have any of it get rid of her and find someone else, she has all sorts of shit in her head and needs to be brought back down to REALITY on good old Earth here.

Now I agree with what Connery has to say. A woman needs to be given a beating now and then to be (how shall I put this) - “reminded” - of who is the boss in the relationship. If she has better things to do and goes all “I’m off shopping!”, then you have to remind her which is left from right, and then she will jump back to the real business of cooking some food or doing some cleaning. Don’t get me wrong here, I don’t condone the act of beating a woman up because she pissed you off in an argument or whatever, but if sometimes she doesn’t understand when you have the last word in, then it is wise to follow it up by a slap maneuver, as women go all pig-headed and just don’t understand what your talking about.

Finally, it is important to understand that you should treat your woman right. Take her out for surprise meals, buy her drinks now and then (remember to go all provider-type and buying her things all the time, because this isn’t going to help), have fun, take her to the cinema, etc. If she has done something nice for you, for example if she bought a nice pair of underwear for you, then it is only polite to return the favor by doing something nice for her, such as giving her oral sex, or buying her some flowers, or whatever. Remember that in a relationship you both have to meet each other half-way. And if you want to hit her or “remind” her who wears the trousers in the relationship, then when your play fighting with her give her one or two jabs a bit harder to “wake” her up. Or something like that anyway…